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I'm an idiot

So I meet this guy on the train last week and he's really cute and saying he thinks I'm beautiful and hot and like the idiot I am I believe him.  He says he wants to get to know me but ... whatever.   He texts me wanting to come to my place and I tell him I'm really tired... I mean I'm still getting over the virus I had. So I say can we meet up next week (meaning this week) but nothing.   God I feel like such a fool for even giving him a chance.  I should have known better  I've been a loser all my life.  Just once I wanted to believe a cute guy might actually think I'm pretty. 

 

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malugargula
Aug. 16th, 2013 12:59 am (UTC)
IMO he's an idiot. Only an idiot (and creepy dangerous guys) give up after the first "no".
You're better without him, that's for sure.
And never let yourself think you're the loser here. You're the winner because you could get out before getting hurt in any kind of way.
phoenixnz
Aug. 16th, 2013 06:03 am (UTC)
I've wiped him. He can go to blazes.
malugargula
Aug. 16th, 2013 07:19 am (UTC)
Damn right he can
:)
crazy4ew
Aug. 16th, 2013 03:10 am (UTC)
Don't be so down on yourself. Shall I get my Helen Reddy song out?

If he wasn't honest to start, it's no big loss. Upward and onward! Don't look back. *hugs*
phoenixnz
Aug. 16th, 2013 06:06 am (UTC)
I wish I knew how to feel better about myself but it's hard when you get to my age and have never really had anyone (of the opposite sex anyway) that you can be that close to. I guess some people are just meant to be alone. :(
thekiller00
Aug. 16th, 2013 03:26 am (UTC)
I'm a guy, but I've always thought that everyone is great in their own way and you are and amazing fan fiction writter and probably beyond beautiful.

Plus I've always thought that if you give someone the chance and they don't take the time to get to know the real you, even when they acted like they wanted to, then they aren't worth your time.
phoenixnz
Aug. 16th, 2013 06:07 am (UTC)
That's sweet of you to say. My only joy in life is my writing, and my online friends here. As for Mr Jerk - well he can just go to hell.
mari2anne
Aug. 16th, 2013 07:12 am (UTC)
And he'll never know what heaven it could have been getting to know someone as wonderful as you!
phoenixnz
Aug. 16th, 2013 11:18 pm (UTC)
*hugs*
eternal_moonie
Aug. 16th, 2013 10:03 am (UTC)
*BIG HUGS*

He's the fool! He should have replied! I know I would have if the text was to me.
phoenixnz
Aug. 16th, 2013 10:11 am (UTC)
You are so sweet to say that Jan and I know you would. *big hugs*
jlvsclrk
Aug. 16th, 2013 01:46 pm (UTC)
*hug* Men!
phoenixnz
Aug. 16th, 2013 06:20 pm (UTC)
Yep. *sigh*
babydee1
Aug. 16th, 2013 07:26 pm (UTC)
Seconding what everyone here has said. If he can't be arsed to get to know you, then he's not worth your time.

*hugs*

phoenixnz
Aug. 16th, 2013 10:56 pm (UTC)
Yeah, I know *sigh*. Just once, I wanted to believe that life was throwing me a bone. Instead it just shat on me once again.
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